Ask Selma January 22, 2013 Kathy Crabbe Ask Selma. Go Ahead. Be Brave. The hardest lesson is to love what you already have. Page to the left is from my sketchbook: Kathy Crabbe, Ask Selma, 2013, ink & gouache on paper, 5 x 7”. Shop here. Ask Selma via Kathy here (scroll down).